Sucks To Have Your Heart Broken
Just once in my life this was one time I wish I was wrong. Over the weekend my baby girl got my heart broken. The way things were going since V-day, I had a feeling something not good was going to happen.
She kinda kept her feelings close (not kissing him back and so on) while they were dating, before he asked her out. Then after it became official that they were "going" together she let some of the feelings go and placed her heart on her sleeve. He didn't talk to her the whole time he was away, but she found out he talked to other people. He called her Thursday night but she said it wasn't like their normal conversations they have had. They were suppose to spend Friday together and instead he tells her he is going to the aquarium with a friend that is a girl. He was suppose to call her Friday night and never did and then made the breakup call Saturday. He called here first looking for her and I told him he could contact her on her friends cell. About a half hour later she called me, said he had broken up with her. She said was ok but I could hear the hurt in her voice. She asked if she could stay at her friends another night and come home Sunday. I knew from my past relationships, its always good to have a best friend there for you so I said yes.
She came home Sunday and we talked some. She said she didn't cry at her friends house and she wasn't going to cry here because he wasn't worth her tears. After we talked she buried herself in her music which is what she usually does when angry or upset.
The reason he gave for breaking up: He cant just date one girl! GRRRRRRRRR And this from a guy who was the one who went after Sky, called her every night and wrote letters to her and once he actually got her he dumped her. I so felt this coming!
I cant tell you how mad iam. To see my daughter hurt like this, to see the pain in her eyes, in her voice. I so want to just smack this guy up the side of the head. Does he realize what he is letting go of, I know Iam her mother but still.
I know it is a part of life to get your heart broken, that this is just one in many life lessons she will learn from ..... If only we could protect out children from hurt, but we cant.
Its hurts more to see my children go through this then it did when I went through it.
posted by Suz @ 10:23 PM
19 comments
19 Comments:
You have a very smart girl there. She will fine the young man that is for her. I hate that he turned out to be such a JERK!! And to say "I can't just date one girl" after him hunting her down....I'd smack him for sure.
I dread the day Mina gets out there, ugh!
oh no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that jerk!!!
he's a player! once he got her....he felt like the fun was over!!!! grrrrr!!!!!
I would be so mad if i were you suz! it's your baby girl!!!! dang it!
but you know what..sky is right, he isn't worthy of her tears..and it's good that she found out now then later...before things got too deep if you know what i mean!!!
Sky deserves someone MUCH MUCH better than this.... !!!
You know..... i'm so going go kick that jerk's @ss!!!!!!!!!! don't let me see him on the street or he will be in trouble!!!!!
I hope your baby girl feel better soon, and you're such an understanding mom!!!!! she will be fine..i'm praying for you all =)
That frekin jerk! I could say worse but I won't. She is a beautiful girl and she can find better guys than him. It sucks that you have to see your daughter go through this but she seems very strong and it is his loss!She is lucky she has you to smack...no I mean to have to talk to!Take care:) Hugs*
It will be okay. She's young, Mom! He is a jerk and best that she didn't waste too much time on him. It is hard though.
that just sux...I am so glad she has you though...remember your first heartbreak? Damn..it was awful!!
Oh crap! I can't believe he was chicken shit to break up with her on the phone. What a loser! I love Sky's comments, that he isn't worth her tears and I think that says a lot about you as a parent Suz, that she's strong enough and likes herself enough to know that she's better than he is! It makes me think of my favorite teen genre movie (can't hardly wait) when the jock breaks up with his high school girlfriend and then suddenly realizes his mistake....I hope this happens to this boy and that he always regrets the one that got away.
My 15 year old daughter was heartbroken before Christmas. It was very sad. I know that there will probably be many more times and I'm not looking forward to that! Lots of love and hugs to mend the broken heart!
Oh, so sad to have to learn so young that man can be real a^%holes! At least she has good role models in you and her dad. So many young boys are all into the chase and then once they have the "prize" it's apparently boring for them. Jerks!
I know you are hurt and angry. I know your baby girl is hurt and angry... but thank God he broke up with her! What a jerk. "I can't date just one girl." Who does he think he is? He has no right to treat people like that.
I'm just thankful that they didn't date for years and then she found out he was cheating. That would have devestated her for sure. So I'm glad the little so and so was a creep up front... so she didn't have to waste precious time on him! Because it's obvious he doesn't deserve her.
Where does he live? I'll go smack 'im for ya! :p
Obviously my girl is still young, my I dread this part of growing up. I can relate it how broken hearted my nephew was just a bit ago... even though he is not my son, I was still pissed and hurt for him.
Life is about lessons. Some will hurt us to our very core, but we learn and are shaped into who we become. She will be just fine mom.
I'm sorry to hear about your daughter's heartbreak. You sound like a fine, caring mother. I wish my mother had cared so much when I had my first heartbreak. All she told me was to stop crying, move on, etc. You seem to be so much more understanding and empathic towards your daughter. She sure is lucky to have you as her mother. Good job!
ahhhhh that so sucks.....what a jerk and the only thing that helps is that is was a short relationship and not dragged out for too long before his true jerk spots could be seen!!!
I am totally afraid of all this with my girls.
hugs to you and your daughter
your poor daughter but good for her at the same time...and thank goodness he had the wherewithall to tell her the truth early on. At least she didn't stay with him longer or develop a stronger attachment to the immature little fool. I cannot wait for my girls to date and put me thru this or much much worse. not.
I'm so sorry to hear this, Suz. Life is hard as a teenager. It sounds like she handled it with control...good for her.
awww....poor girl!!!!
I'm sorry.
Go rip his heart out mama bear!!!!
I should tell you sometime what I did to one of the boys that came sniffin' around my first born.
Hugs to beautiful girl.
Aww, Suz. :(
I'm late to this thread but I echo the sentiments of the others. I'm just surprised that it lasted such a short time. He is a player - now he's on to the next challenge. Blah.
Sky sounds like a strong young lady. This hurts, but she will move on and find someone worthy of her one day. He definitely was NOT.
I"m so sorry, I was so happy for her when she started dating him, and now feel really sorry. Breakups hurt, I know as a mother I would feel like you. I'm sorry.
Thanks everyone! Have to say she is handling it all pretty well. Glued to her music and the phone.
Hugs Suz
That's good teen-therapy... music, and phones.. :o)
But... what a sleazy scum-ball..
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